12 eBay Message Templates Every Seller Needs
The 12 buyer messages every eBay seller gets, with a copy-paste template for each: offers, refunds, INR, returns, damage claims, and feedback.

Every eBay seller answers the same dozen messages over and over. The difference between a top-rated shop and a stressed one is rarely the products; it is how fast and how well those dozen messages get answered. Here are templates for all twelve, written the way experienced sellers actually write, ready to adapt to your voice.
A note before you copy: buyers can smell a canned reply. Swap in the actual item, the actual order detail, the buyer's name when you have it. The template is the skeleton; the specifics are what make it feel human.
1. "Is this still available?"
Hi [name], yes, it is still available and ready to ship. If you have any questions about the [item] before you buy, ask away. It ships within [X] business days of payment.
Answer fast on this one above all others. Availability questions are purchase intent at its peak, and the first decent answer usually closes the sale.
2. The lowball offer
Thank you for the offer. I cannot go to $[X], but I can do $[Y], which is the best I can offer on this one given [brief reason: recent sold prices, condition, demand]. If that works, I will send the counter now.
Never take the offer personally and never lecture. A number, a reason, a path forward. Buyers who lowball often pay the counter.
3. "Will you take $X?" when the price is firm
I appreciate the interest. The price on this one is firm at $[X]; it is priced against recent sold listings and it is the lowest I can go. If it helps, I can [sweetener you can afford: combine shipping, ship same day].
A firm no lands better with a small yes attached.
4. Condition questions (scratches, box, papers, authenticity)
Great question. To answer directly: [exact answer, including what is NOT included]. The listing photos show [what they show], and I have added [detail] for you. If you want additional photos of [specific area], reply here and I will send them within the hour.
Answer the question they asked before anything else. If the answer is "no box, no papers," say it plainly; the sale you lose honestly costs less than the return plus negative.
5. "Where is my order?" with tracking moving
Hi [name], your order shipped on [date] via [carrier] and is on schedule. Tracking [number] shows it in [location] as of today, with delivery estimated [date range]. You can follow it live here: [link]. I will keep an eye on it from my side too.
Facts beat reassurance. Give the number, the location, the date.
6. "Where is my order?" with tracking stalled
Hi [name], I checked your tracking and you are right, it has not updated since [date]. That is usually a scan gap rather than a lost package, but I am not going to make you wait indefinitely. Here is what I propose: if there is no movement by [specific date], I will [refund you in full / send a replacement], your choice. I have also opened a trace with [carrier].
Naming the date you will act is what turns an anxious buyer into a patient one.
7. Item arrived damaged
I am sorry the [item] arrived damaged; that is frustrating and it is on us to fix. Two options, whichever you prefer: a full refund including shipping, or [replacement/partial refund] if you would rather keep it. If you can send a photo of the damage and the packaging, it helps me file the carrier claim, but your refund does not wait on that.
The refund-does-not-wait line defuses almost everyone.
8. The partial refund request
Thanks for flagging the [issue]. Looking at the photos and the listing, here is what I can do: a partial refund of $[X], which reflects [reasoning]. If you would rather return it for a full refund instead, that is completely fine too and I will send a label. Let me know which you prefer.
Always pair the partial with the full-return alternative. It keeps the negotiation honest, and buyers who are fishing usually take the partial and go quiet. There is a longer playbook on this in how to respond to partial refund requests.
9. The return request you accept
No problem at all, [name]. I have accepted the return; you will get a prepaid label through eBay. Pack it with the original [box/accessories] if you can. Once it arrives and checks out, your refund goes back to your original payment method, usually within [X] days of delivery.
10. The return request outside policy
Hi [name], I want to be straight with you: this order falls outside the return window ([date] delivery, [X]-day window). Here is what I can still do: [genuine option: partial credit, help reselling advice, exception if item defective]. If the item is defective rather than a change of mind, tell me more, because that changes things and I will make it right.
11. After a negative or neutral feedback
Hi [name], I saw your feedback and I want to make this right, not argue with it. [One-sentence acknowledgment of their specific issue.] Here is what I am doing today: [the fix]. No conditions attached. If there is anything else that would resolve this properly, tell me.
The full playbook, including when and how to request a revision, is in our feedback revision guide.
12. The thank-you that earns feedback
Hi [name], thanks again for your order; tracking shows it was delivered. I hope the [item] is exactly what you wanted. If anything is off, message me first and I will fix it. We have already left you positive feedback on our side. If you are happy with everything, feedback is always appreciated.
Message-first-if-unhappy is the highest-leverage sentence in seller messaging: it routes problems to your inbox instead of your feedback page.
The real template is your voice
Templates get you to a decent reply. What buyers respond to is a decent reply that sounds like a person, references their actual order, and arrives fast. That combination is hard to sustain across hundreds of messages, which is exactly what Reply Copilot is for: it drafts each reply inside eBay Messages using the live listing, order, and tracking details, in your shop's voice, so "fast, specific, and human" stops depending on how your day is going.
FAQ
How fast should I respond to eBay messages? Same day at minimum; within the hour when a question signals purchase intent. Response speed is a direct input to conversion and to how buyers rate the experience.
Can I automate replies to eBay messages? You can automate the drafting. Fully hands-off auto-responses beyond eBay's built-in away message tend to read robotic and create mistakes. The stronger pattern is AI-drafted replies a human approves, which is how Reply Copilot works.
Should I use eBay's saved replies feature? Saved replies work for the top two or three questions, but they cannot pull in order details or adapt tone, so most sellers end up rewriting them anyway.
What should I never say in an eBay message? Never promise what you cannot verify (delivery dates without tracking, authenticity you have not checked), never offer refunds conditional on feedback, and never take payment or contact off eBay.
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